
“When at these PFI events, I know I am going to meet others who have the same goals and ideals as me, which makes it easier to meet people I can connect with.” – Mark Westbrock“I find a strong mentor for me is someone who gives me personal strength to deal with the family and mental health issues that come with farming,” Caite says, noting that farming with children can be rewarding, but can also be challenging and mentally draining. ”I need someone who can help me work though how to help my daughter through losing a lamb she so deeply loved,” Caite says. These are nuances and dimensions of farming that aren't easily found online. Having someone to talk with during such stressful situations, and who can offer emotional support, is another important facet of mentorship.
Finding Connections at Farmers Markets
Building that network, however, can be a challenging process, and there's no single right or best approach. When Mark was getting started farming, he followed the path many direct-market beginning farmers do: He signed up for a couple of farmers market booths. This gave him the opportunity to have customers find him. But an unexpected benefit was building relationships with other farmers. “When you are all together each week, all season long, you start to chat and connect with one another,” Mark says. He has found having a market presence to be one of the easiest ways to meet other farmers. And he adds that from these connections grew some collaborations that may have not happened otherwise. For instance, Mark explains how fellow market vendor Eric Jensen, also a beginning farmer, was increasing his off-season production in his high tunnel but needed ways to get the produce to customers. Mark agreed to promote the produce Eric had available each week to his egg customers. The collaboration was a win-win for both beginning farmers and their customers. In addition to the farmers market, Mark has found success in meeting peers and mentors through local field days and conferences. “When at PFI events, I know I am going to meet others who have the same goals and ideals as me, which makes it easier to meet people who I can connect with,” Mark says.Building Networks Through Formal Programs
Caite, meanwhile, has met a number of mentors through more formalized programs, like the Women, Food and Agriculture Network's mentoring program and PFI's Savings Incentive Program. Each program has paired Caite with a mentor based on some criteria she was seeking. Currently, Caite is mentoring with Carrie Chestnut Mess, a dairy farmer in southeastern Wisconsin, through WFAN's “Harvesting Our Potential” mentoring program.
“I find a strong mentor for me is someone who gives me personal strength to deal with the family and mental health issues that come with farming. – Caite PalmerBeing familiar with Carrie's background, however, didn't make the prospect of asking Carrie to be her mentor any easier. “It's intimidating to ask someone to be your mentor,” Caite says. “Why would someone want to take time out of their day to help me figure out my problems?” Despite the anxiety, Caite knew the worst that could happen was for Carrie to say no. So she summoned her courage – and Carrie accepted the invitation. The two women took time in their first meetings to set expectations and goals for the mentorship. “This has been key to feeling like it's of value to us both,” Caite says. They both agree on how they will communicate, how often and what they want to accomplish. Caite and Carrie spent the first month honing in on what Caite wanted to gain from mentorship. This process led to the idea of Caite starting a Facebook group where other farmers with families could share tips, or just support one another in their challenges. Thus, the Barnyard Language group was born. This has been a place for other farmers to share how they struggle with feeding their family between chores, deal with depression and so much more. (If this group sounds like a place for you, check it out on Facebook.) For Mark, the Savings Incentive Program connected him to Peter Kerns and Natasha Hegmann of Turkey River Farm in Elkport, Iowa. Collectively, the trio approached the mentorship very casually, which worked well with their personalities and intentions. “It has been a great experience getting to know Pete and Natasha,” Mark says. “They have a similar worldview to us and their scale is not so much bigger than ours. This means we have many practices we can discuss that are relevant.” Even though the mentorship through SIP is complete, these farmers still keep in touch and support each other – an example of how mentorships sometimes lead to lifelong friendships.

